I believe that relationships are the stepping stones of life. I am not currently an active member on here, and am thinking of joining again, but am skeptical, so if I don't respond to a wink or email, I am not ignoring you-I am just thinking... I believe that you should have no regrets about former relationships, and believe that there was a purpose for each. It is hard when you are stepping on the stone, and it is cracking, to figure out why (all the areas in which I or they fall short), but once you are on the next stone, you will know why you had to step on the previous. I am ready to try to figure out which stone I would like to step on next, because we do have a choice of which direction to go. My next stone will be handsome, smart (not nerdy), affectionate (a must), enjoy being around children (a definite must considering I am a single mother now), concerned about his health and body (but not obsessed-everything in moderation, honest, he will love me just as much as I love him (Equality allows you to be yourself and to be comfortable to express how you really feel. It allows you to say what you really want without being concerned that he doesn't feel that way), spontaneous (about traveling, going somewhere for the night, day or week),fearless-don't bring your past into our present and I won't either, and most of all consistent in all of the aforementioned areas.
So a little about myself: I am outgoing, diligent, an uplifting friend, and fun to be around. I am passionate about my career and my children. I enjoy learning, and believe you should learn something new everyday. I believe that you should build people up, and fake a smile because it makes others feel good, regardless of how you really feel inside. I try to surround myself with positive people because, as I teach my children and students, "We get to choose who comes in and out of our lives, and we need to choose wisely." I am a bit spontaneous, when it comes to traveling. As a teacher I have a lot of time off, and I love to travel. I believe we should be life long learners academically as well as spiritually. I am concerned about my appearance and work out enough to stay fit and cute in jeans and a white t-shirt, or a slinky black dress. I am not obsessive about working out, or about anything that I do because I believe that you should do everything in moderation, well with the exception of spending time with the people you care about-you can never get enough of that. Since I believe that you should do most things in moderation, I am going to stop rambling here.
I am over dating casually. There was a time for that, but the time is over. I'm looking for a healthy, ONE ON ONE, COMMITTED relationship. If you are still in the playing stage, hurt stage, bitter stage, or it's all about me stage, enjoy the game. I'm sure match has someone else you can put on your roster. I love baseball and metaphors, but I am not in to games that involve relationships!!