My name is AJ and I'm a travel guru, optimist & coversationalist. I thrive on being unpredictable because life is unpredictable. I'm hoping to meet someone with a positive outlook on himself and life because confidence is always sexy. I love humor, conversation, and comfortable moments where the two of us are being ourselves, enjoying our time. Spontaneity and relaxing moments: If you think they don't go together, I'd prove you wrong.
I thrive in any situation, but I do strive to be comfortable whenever possible. There's nothing more uncomfortable than walking on egg shells around someone but I'm the proverbial chameleon. I can say that I love verbal sparring. I love to see how the other person thinks, what shapes his views and his experiences. I'm a great listener as well, more than people would assume. I have a peeve about talking over someone, so if a person talks non-stop for an hour, I'll just sit there and listen. Heads up, it's nice to be included in the conversation.
Chemistry and a connection beyond the physical is important to anything lasting.
People assume that you & your potential partner must be alike and share all of the same interests. For me, that's not true. It's the differences that make us interesting. Some shared interests are important, but not all. Being respectful of those differences, the ability to think beyond yourself, and willingness to share your world is all I can hope for.