Must love music, like the outdoors, home-cooked meals, keeping healthy, and if you're allergic to cats - sorry b/c the two I have, have claimed my heart. What I find sexy: men who do what they say they're going to do, men who cook, have a sense of humor, men who are comfortable in their skin, and men who march to the beat of their own drum. As for me, I consider myself upbeat and positive, a great listener, and like to make people laugh. I'm easy going and allow the ebb and flow of life to happen, flexing as necessary to keep a healthy balance of peace and comfort. A strong sense of self and comfort in my own skin means I am looking for someone who shares their time with me but doesn't lose touch with their own interests; we will complement each other.