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53 year old man
Santa Barbara, California, United States

Seeking:
women 35-47
Within:
30 Miles of Santa Barbara, California, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
No
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
A few extra pounds
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Never

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Oh, how I love this part!

With me, you WILL laugh, often, because I am really fu%$#n funny. My humor is often dry: I won't tell you that the humor train had just arrived, you'd just better be on the ball.

I am a straight shooter, my last gal loved me and hated me for it. The truth is what you shall hear from me; and I am getting good at delivering those truths in a way that you can hear them when they are "sticky" truths.
Personal growth is important to me, and yet I have been stagnant as of late.
I am smart, not too humble, kind: I love the power of words.
I love to love and want to be known by a delicious woman. Can you see strength in my vulnerability?
I am kind and generous and strong. I will HOLD you and make you feel safe.

You are: Smart, Sassy, Funny, Quick, Kind, Compassionate, Vulnerable, Sexy, Sexual.

You like to hear the truth from me. You have done a lot of work on yourself, and you take responsibility for your experience. You tell the truth to me. No withholding.

You are not looking for perfect. You are a creator of relationships; you design them your way, not the way the books say to do them.

You are looking to grow, and to laugh, and to be held, and to share your heart.

You like chocolate and long hot showers. You like wakeboarding/skiing/tubing at Lake Nacimiento and BBQing afterward (My best friend has a Lake House.)

You can cook. You have a good relationship with your family. You only do crack on the weekends.

You like your toes curled. :-)

Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Playing cards, Playing sports, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering
Sports & exercise:
Golf, Skiing, Walking / Hiking
Exercise habits:
I'll tell you later
Pets:
I'll tell you later
Political views:
Non-conformist
Sign:
I'll tell you later
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Reading, Hanging Out with Friends, Watching My Best Friend's 8 year old son make 1701 Basketball Shots in 3 hours, Watching Movies. Wakeboarding, Hiking, Golfing, Mastering The Kama Sutra (joking - that is the dry humor thing - or am I?

Favorite hot spots:

Three Pickles, Glen Annie Golf Course, The Library, Lake Nacimiento

Favorite things:

Caprese Salad, Juicer Juice with Spinach, Carrot and Apple, Funny and Interesting Podcasts. Reacher, Mitch Rapp and Travis McGee. The best shows on TV: Deadwood, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, the Partridge Family (Kidding! I didn't think Mad Men was great.)

Last read:

The Hunt for Osama Bin Laden, Lee Child Books, The Cat in the Hat, Vanity Fair.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type:
A few extra pounds
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Hazel
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Never
Never, Moderately
Occupation:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
No preference
Have kids:
No
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
No
Probably not, No
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Spiritual but not religious

There is definitely something greater than I. I believe it is a power, not a person. I, for the most part, do not like organized religion, for many reasons. My religion is kindness, compassion and integrity.

Languages:
English, Tagalog, Urdu
English
Education:
Some college
No preference

Most of my education has come in the form of business seminars, communication seminars and personal growth seminars. I like to learn by doing. Test taking - not so much.

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