I'm a 39 year old professional guy recently coming out of the end of a 17 year marriage. That means I havent dated pretty much since the internet came about, so my game may be a bit rusty. I have two 17 year old kids who live with me and are the apple of my eye. When I'm not working, much of my time is spent with them (though less and less each day as they spread their wings!). I have a wry, sarcastic sense of humor that sometimes borders on the inappropriate. And I refuse to take anything or anyone too seriously - have tried that in the past, feels like it just shaves years off my life.
I've never been a serial dater, quick fling sort of guy. I got around enough before I got married, and don't need to play those high school/college games anymore. I am looking for a real connection, hoping to meet some good people and possibly the one. But once I find that special someone, I bring passion and an adventerous spirit to my love life.
I cherish honesty, real 'in your face' honesty. We only get one shot at this life, and noone should waste it pussyfooting around to spare someone's feelings. Now don't read that to mean I believe in being rude or mean, that's not the case. But I wouldn't want someone bs'ing me to spare my feelings - I want the real person. Otherwise it's just fake.
I enjoy going to the gym, helps relieve the stresses of life. I love living in Miami, and though I like visiting elsewhere, it will always be home. Anyways, this rambling statement sucks, and probably won't get read anyways. But it was a nice 2 minute diversion with a dash of introspection.