I'm very happy to be me. One person has ever told me they disliked me and I still wonder why. I'm very laid back, but I'm also outspoken. I'm generally blunt about anything. If it needs to be said or somebody wants to say it, I say it...generally.Drama is something I always consciously avoid. I prefer talking over shouting ever day of the year.
I'm very close to my family and that is important to me. My office has me committed to Rochester for at least a couple more years and it is one I value. I am a good man. I'm thoughtful, sensitive, bright, confident and caring.
I'm here for a woman. Maturity is a must, balanced with a youthful personality. Yes pretty, yes smart, yes hardworking, yes great in the sack, yes great conversationalist, yes, break a little rule here and there, within reason... yes we can talk about anything, yes I depend on you for some things and you me, together we are synergistic and having found the other, life can begin.
Of course, I'd just like a companion for starters. I'm lonely. Why are any of us here?
Here's the catch. I got a 32 on my ACTS and a 1410 SATS, 99th percentile. I was smartest in my class, but I was likely among the least behaved as well. Even as an adult I consistently take ADD medication and without it would struggle to keep my clothes washed. I function so much better when in a healthy relationship, but it will take patience on your part. I can captivate people when I'm in the zone, or seem like an absolute scatter brain idiot depending. I depend on family and friends to help keep me focused day to day.
Moreover, until about seven years ago, I was addicted to painkillers and have a related conviction from that time. I know I'll lose some dates for this, but I have to tell every person I meet at some point. I have been judged by that alone enough I think it best up front. Judge my honesty first and I will explain the distant past. Please allow me that courtesy. I have worked harder than hard to start fresh and who I grew into is my offer.
I can't promise the world but then all I really need is a lot more humble...just a house with a yard for the dog and someday my family.
For now, lets just get together. I hope I pick you to write to.