My perfect match would be a gentleman. He would be kind, motivated, employed (no joke-you wouldn't believe how many people just don't care), considerate, compassionate, and a good listener. I'm a teacher, so I find someone who has an education and can carry a conversation a must. I am far from a timid person, so I need someone who can keep up with me in all aspects of life. It is important to him to treat a girl like a lady. His family is important to him and he is interested in having a family of his own. He would want to share his life with me and enjoys children. I'm looking for someone who wants to be exclusive and be both fun and romantic.
If I am having a bad day, I hope that I could turn to him and he would want to make me smile. My match would not give up if we encountered a bump in the road and would realize that all relationships experience hardships. It's how you work together to make things right. I'm looking for someone who has a similar set of values. However, if he and I do not totally agree, he would be willing to compromise and meet me halfway. I do not like game players or drama. I grew up as the only girl with brothers, so I never had to deal with drama growing up and do not want to deal with it now.
Overall, I am looking for someone who is willing to put as much efforts as I do into a relationship. Like everyone else, I have been hurt in the past. However, I don't dwell on it, and I believe when I do find the right person, it will make me appreciate him and our relationship even more. In my opinion, a relationship is not 50-50. I feel both sides should be willing to give 100% of their efforts. Nothing can be one-sided.
I believe that you are truly right for a person, you can do anything and be happy. If I'm happy with that person, I look forward to spending time with him. I love getting prepared for nice nights out, but the everyday life situations are when you find out what a person is really like. If you can survive these situations and still laugh with one another, it's the real thing.