I would rather laugh at the absurdity of life or debate the comedic value of an anvil or barrel than be serious. I like witty and clever but not over top. I tend to be anti-social and a homebody but not unwilling to be persuaded to be otherwise. I prefer evenings in, a good meal and even better wine. I like the smell of cigars and good scotch. You should be smart and know your current events. A man's man. You should be a gentleman and be able to make me laugh or melt my heart. Really, I'm just looking to be treated with kindness and respect. Being fit and handsome wouldn't be too bad either.