Ok, here is the deal plain and simple...I am looking for honesty, respect, and loyality....If you meet this criteria then plz read on...I love a man that isnt afaid to show affection, love and understanding,,,,Honesty is a big deal to me..Be honest from the get go then you wont have anything to hide later.... I have been a widow for four years now..We were married for 19 years...I am kind of quiet untill i get to know you...I am looking for someone that is into curling up on the sofa with a good movie, but is also able to enjoy themselves when we go out and have a good time....Also if you dont like kids you might wanna look somewhere else. I have a sixteen year old so being flexible is a must...First date- Im not gona say..lets go to church, but i wont say hey...lets get a room, i think a causual dinner to get to know each other and maybe a movie if time permits would be lovely, and let me clairify...when i say a movie, i dont mean one at your house.......Interest-----I like bowling, reading, fishing, motorcycles, two step, pool, going out and having a good time, or just snuggling up on the sofa and watching a good movie........