I just dont want to start with the same old nice guy routine. I love to laugh at myself and just have a good time not being so serious. I have to be serious/professional at work so it's fun to just relax and have a good laugh. You must be able to laugh at yourself and just relax or I'm not the guy to hang out with. "Don't sweat the small stuff".
Who am I? Here goes…. I see the good in everybody. I don’t judge people by “their social status, title or occupation”. I have met CEOs and doctors and not been impressed. On the other hand, I have others and been impressed by their character and integrity. So I’m not impressed by what someone does, but rather by who they are, what their values are and how they treat others when no one is watching. I treat all people the same way whether they are the valet guy or the CEO (and believe me, I interact with these types of people daily). I appreciate elderly women and men because of their honesty/wisdom; I wish more people did. I love kids and they are welcome in my environment. I believe that kids are the most honest, carefree, loving and fun people in the world. We should all just act like responsible 5 year old kids and we would have a world full of love, honesty/integrity, peace and a whole lot of fun.
I know who I am, what my values are and I don’t fake it with anyone. If I like you, you will know it and I will do everything for you. If I don’t like you, you will know that too; however, I won’t be rude. I don’t like fake people as there’s no need for that. I am very kind, but I’m not weak. I’m a man of character as I’ve ended so-called friendships to stand up for my loved ones and never looked back or regretted it.
I am also an old fashioned type of guy who respects women. I hold doors open, I love to hold hands, I like to let the woman I’m with be the center of attention as she’s my center of attention and I have manners. I enjoy giving far more than receiving (seems to be opposite of the normal in the OC). I’m not from the OC, but I live here and I’ve met some incredible people here. I believe in true connections, friendships, loyalty, integrity, trust and communication. All relationships have their ups and downs and it’s how we handle our adversities that defines the value of our character and relationship. Life is about relationships with our family, friends, peers, and everyone we interact with. They should all have great value and our lives will have great value too.
My good friend recently told me that “you are the average of the 5 people you hang out with the most in terms of your values, income, and life experiences.” So who are you hanging out with?
I believe that everything is more enjoyable when it’s shared with a friend or loved one; a walk on the beach, watching a show, traveling, or just playing. I invite you to share in the experience of life and just have fun.
I’m looking for someone who shares my values and character. It’s simple, don’t make it complicated.
I'm looking for friendship first and seeing what develops....worse case situation, I just made a friend. There’s no down side and no pressure, it’s all good.