I am very independent, but want someone to spend time with. I like to workout, but I don't need to live at the gym. I like to listen to live music, go walking/hiking, hang out at the beach, and go to amusement parks, especially ones with roller coasters :) I'm not a big party animal, but I do like to go out for a drink and be social. My faith is very important to me so I am looking for a Christian man. I appreciate a man with good manners. It might sound old fashioned, but I love when a guy opens a door for me. I would also like someone who wants to travel. I know some people don't like getting a "wink" and would rather have an email right away, but if I send a wink it's because I want to see if there is even mutual interest. I have no problem being the first one to initiate contact, but I do like a man to "take charge" when it comes to dating. Of course someone wants their opinion valued, but I am definitely not into making ALL the decisions. I guess we'll see what happens. :)