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45 year old man
Strongsville, Ohio, United States

Seeking:
women 35-49
Within:
35 Miles of Cleveland, Ohio, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Moderately

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I have learned in my life that sometimes you're the windshield ... and sometimes you're the bug! Gotta be able to roll with the punches, because sooner or later, life's gonna punch you in the gut.

It seems to me that people generally make life more complicated than it needs to be. I have a rewarding career in marketing, but I work to live -- I don't live to work. I work because it allows me to do the more important things in life: taking the best care I can of my family and friends, and critters of all kinds.

I write for a living, but my "About Me" section ended up sounding just like everyone else's: the relationship version of a cover letter. So here's the most succinct and honest thumbnail of myself I can provide:

Intelligent -- but I'm probably not as smart as I think I am (and I'm definitely not as smart as I used to think I was).
Well-traveled -- but I still spend some nights in foreign hotel rooms, watching TV and eating room service.
Self-deprecating -- but only because I'm just a regular guy, nothing special.
Compassionate -- but God help you if you're going 61 mph in the fast lane, and I'm stuck behind you on my way home from work!
Funny -- but it occasionally crosses the line into "silly."
Generous -- but while that is a wonderful trait, it can be dangerous when paired with "gullible."
Attentive and loving -- but some would say too much so.
Sweet and soft-hearted -- but I love driving fast cars and have no fewer than six tattoos (one of which I won't show you ... well, not before you take me out to a fancy dinner, anyway).

And there you have it -- a few of my virtues, and a handful of my flaws. I have a whole lot more of each. Life is about balance, right? I don't claim that I'm the perfect man -- just a good one. And humble, too!

I have virtually no temper, and I've never hit anyone in anger in my life, not even a schoolyard scuffle. But if you threaten a person (or animal) that I care about, you might think I'm smiling at you, but I'm not. I'm showing you my teeth.

More than anything else, I'm looking for a partner who is sincere, honest, attractive, intelligent and sweet ... but one with some fight in her, too. I want a woman who will stand back-to-back with me and take on the world, if necessary.

Speaking of "the world," I do get around a bit for work. In the last few years, I've been to: Switzerland, Germany, Italy, Turkey, Thailand, China, Brazil, the UK, Hong Kong, Vietnam, Singapore, Austria, Colombia, and Amsterdam. I might've missed a country or two in there. Yeah, I got frequent flier miles! If you want to travel, I am SO your man...

My bar-hopping and partying years are far behind me (happily), and I rarely get loopy, but I do enjoy fine wine and scotch. If my having a couple of drinks while relaxing after work bothers you, we probably will struggle. Just being honest.

I have a ton of interests -- travel, reading, exercising, hikes, trying new places for dinner -- but this is my ideal night:

Fireplace and wine. A movie might be on, or maybe some good tunes in the background while we just chat and laugh at the sheer ridiculousness of life. We might be playing backgammon, with the winner getting a backrub (in which case, I'm winning -- hey, it's MY ideal night). Wine, cheese, bread and olive oil are on the menu.

One thing is certain, though: If the woman I love isn't there to share it with, it will never be my ideal night. Now, I just have to find her.

So ... hi there.


P.S. Every single day, I go to thehungersite. You know what to put on the end of that to make it work, . c o m! There are about 6-7 tabs across the top, and in about 30 seconds, you can: give food to homeless people ... help shelter animals ... help underprivileged women get mammograms ... help veterans in need ... and more. And it's all free! It makes me feel good to start my day that way. =)

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Nightclubs/Dancing, Playing cards, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Golf, Running, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I volunteer, taking care of the cats up for adoption at the Strongsville Petco. I couldn't resist. I broke down one day and brought two of them home.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
Miami University, Oxford, OH
For fun:

I am mostly a stay-at-home kinda guy. I like to go out, but that's the spice in life, not the main course. If you aren't happy with someone when you're just sitting and chatting, it's a problem. Movies, hikes, dinner and drinks, a concert -- all good

Favorite hot spots:

I travel internationally for work, which has its advantages and drawbacks. Locally, I like Triv's and Samurai Sushi (both in Strongsville), but I love trying unique places with some character as well. I, ummm, need to get out more! Help!!

Favorite things:

I eat books. It's a good hobby for a writer/editor to have! I love clever sarcasm and satire, a la South Park and The Daily Show. And in a clear sign that I am a masochist, I've loved the Browns all my life.
Sigh.

Last read:

Usually, I'm a fiction reader, but I have to do a lot of reading online for work -- mostly about big data, commodities, supply chains, and IT. Oh yeah -- I drink a lot of coffee.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Hazel
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Moderately
Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Artistic / Creative / Performance
No preference

In Jan. 2014, I started a new job as the head of marketing & communications for a Liverpool-based IT company. Pretty cool stuff, and in my last job, I commuted 80 miles a day. Now I commute from my bedroom to my office. Nice!

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
No preference
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Not sure, Probably not, No
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

Half Irish (on my dad's side), half Italian (I'm guessing you can figure out which side through process of elimination.)

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference

Born and raised Catholic, slowly re-emerged later in life as an agnostic. I'm open-minded and love debating theology, but faith is beyond my ability to grasp, I'm afraid.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
No preference

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