I am an architectural designer; originally from Boca Raton (S. FL) but have also lived in other places, such as South Beach, San Diego .... Atl
I am very easy going, yet really goal-oriented driven in life... and enjoy being around the same types of individuals. Other qualities I have been told I have, is a witty sense of humor; along w/ an adventurous, playful spirit. Lifes too short, not to add some laughter in the mix ;-).
When I love, I do so unconditionally w/ utmost sincerity; as building deep connections w/ those arnd me are often viewed as a long term connection.
In the past, I have been told that I tend to gravitate towards the laid-back, humorous, spontaneous, or artistically-talented types of individuals when it pertains to friendships.
However, in many ways; quite the contrary when it pertains to an intimate r'ship. I believe that's mainly due to the fact that although I am quite artistic/creative, free-spirited spontaneous in nature; I am predominantly more of a 'Type-A' personality myself (particularly when it comes to 'the way I think' re: goals/aspirations
........... ;-)..... :-p
Therefore, men that exemplify qualities, such as; being driven in life (whatever their passions); career-oriented, health-savvy.... and/or loves adventure, yet; shares commonalities such as sharing intellectually stimulating conversations w/ others, passionate about life.... /or can attribute just an overall 'ease' to the r'ship; are undoubtedly, such total turn-on's for me.
However, Top 3: (Id have 2 say) Intellectually Stimulating; Adventurous & Compassionate 4 sure! ;)
Above all else; Honesty, loyalty and dependability (thrgh open communication) are what I strive to be more and more about. Therefore, they are ESSENTIAL to those I chose to surround myself with in return.....After all, without these, a foundation cannot be built upon in any r'ship. ;-) I don't think most people truly understand the value of this.
Some commonalities that my closest friends share about me often is that I posses certain levels of maturity and consciousness that's not typical for my age...; I am really blessed w/ a sense of 'unconditional' compassion for most (whether I chose to have them in my life long term or not)....; along w/ being told repeatedly by those I love; that I am admired/appreciated immensely for my ability to, truly stand alongside another through some of their most difficult times in life; not just always in the good.
I believe, that's contributed, largely, to my 'own' experiences... some welcomed... and some, ehhh, not so much ~lol ;-)
Regardless, 'Real Growth' in many aspects of life will always be a goal I strive for b/c with it; (I believe), lies the 'key' to Real Success and Genuine Happiness.
All all, Im not looking for Mr. Perfect but I am looking for Mr Perfect 'For Me'......... You know, a Best Friend in life and sometimes, that takes time but Im up for the wait ;-)
.....In the meantime, Im definitely 'open' to meeting some new faces, expanding my horizons and possibly building on what,
could be, the beginning of some rly great friendships..........
...........AND.......'potentially' something pretty darn amazing that supersedes a platonic 1 :-D