I am not trying to be matched (actually). I am just here for Networking. I think that internet dating needs to be screened very carefully. People can make themselves look very good in writing. It takes a lot of patience and screening. I have opted to just make friends, and not look for a spouse or someone to date. I know several individuals didn't turn out to be the person they portrayed on their profile on another site I was on in my past. I suggest "extreme" caution when even scheduling a meeting. Never go alone. I am currently in a period of reflection. No interest whatsoever in hooking up.