Will be leaving this site on the 15th...
I'm originally from the east coast [PA, NYC], but have been calling LA 'home' for about 12 years now. I spend my time between LA and NY/PA, traveling frequently for pleasure as well as work. I’ve traveled a lot of the US [still more to see], Italy, France, England, Thailand, Greece, etc…, so it would be great to meet someone who also likes to discover the world and new cultures.
Yes, the pix shown are actually me and all are pretty recent. I just turned 43 [Feb 1]. I was never a sun bunny and never smoked. I guess I just have good genes in general. I choose to be online looking for someone as it allows me to meet people I wouldn't normally. I don't date people I work with or my neighbours, so that automatically limits the venues that most other people utilise.
I’m the 'girl next door' who used to be goth chick back in the day. True story. I've evolved from those days, obviously. :) I'm friendly, very sassy [yes, I said it], authentic, love to laugh and tease...and I'm probably one of the biggest dorks you'll ever meet too. I'm also very open about everything [if asked]. I can be super shy at first [especially if I like you], but, when I get to know you and finally let my guard down, watch out! Just kidding...but, I will call you out on your sh*t, keep you on your toes, and challenge you [in a nice way, of course]. In turn, I expect the same from you. I am also one of the most supportive and understanding 'cheerleaders' my significant other will ever have. I am very loyal, faithful, affectionate, compassionate, communicative, honest, open-minded, creative, and do a lot of little extra things to keep my partner happy and always guessing. I definitely try to switch things up so that the relationship never gets boring or predictable.
I work out and try to eat clean [but, I do love a good burger and fries occasionally], so I'd love to meet someone who is fit and cares about their appearance. I used to be a fashion designer/model in NYC, so looks/clothes are important to me [just being honest], but I won't judge you if you wear jeans and a tee on a regular basis. Basically, you know how to look good when necessary.... I am comfortable in almost any situation and get along with pretty much everyone.
I'm currently single by choice. I basically wanna take it slow with the right person and see where things go. I'm definitely open to a relationship if things go that way. I'm kinda old school when it comes to dating and relationships. I like the guy to take the lead, open doors, etc... Even if I check out your profile or favourite you, I will rarely contact you first, just so you know. :)
You should message me if...
...you're fit, care about what you put into your body, a NON-SMOKER, are 100% single, have an honest, emotive personality, creative, sensual, a great communicator, have a silly or sarcastic sense of humour, romantic, thoughtful, curious....
If you like to regularly re-invent things so that your relationships never get stale, I like that a lot because that's what I do. I also like a super sweet guy who can still take the initiative. Basically, you're not afraid to choose a restaurant or movie, but you still love to give me options to pick from. You know how to switch things up a bit, make me smile, and get me excited. You think kissing is a conversation and, damn, you're good at it and like to talk!