How about walking on the beach, getting a coffee or tea, finding a hidden gem or sharing one with one another? It doesn't need to be work but mutual effort is appreciated. A great first date for me is a great conversation....to begin with. A love of the outdoors, your understanding that I have a somewhat challenging work schedule ( ie not 9-5) but a flexible one, I have an amazing Jack Russell rescue that demands some of my time and energy, and then know that I have time for YOU.
I work in the fitness industry and love being active -- not a big gym rat though. I like to hike, cycle (I did the ALC a few years ago and rode every one of the 545 miles!!), I practice yoga, pilates, and every now and then I figure skate. Clearly I am interested in fitness and health but I love to have fun -- love to cook and entertain, drink wine, check out new restaurants, go to wine country, and shoot a (bad) game of pool. I am also a creative type and I paint, mostly for my own enjoyment and expression.
I'm looking for a kind, outgoing, confident guy. Generous in spirit, fit, curious about life. Someone who shares some of my interests. Someone to spend time with, but it doesn't need to be all the time. Fun, well groomed but still a guys guy. Handsome, available and living in San Francisco or on this planet.....And at this point I am looking for a long term relationship.
What I love is going out and trying new restaurants in the city (love high end, love ethnic), staying in and cooking new recipes, meeting new friends, not being in the rat race and being spontaneous as much as my schedule will allow....oh and I am a bit of a wine lover:)