"Live Well, Laugh hard, & Love Life"...My motto defines me most of the times, but I have learnt to take care of myself despite my willingness to be traditional. My thoughts on relationships: a man must be a man (may lead) but know that his female partner is just that - his partner!... & his equal. A man must want to treat his female partner right rather than feel as if he has to, and the vice versa is true. 2 people must know that neither one belongs to the other person, but that they have decided to share and respect each other, remembering always the reasons why they're together. 2 people must look in the same direction (tho they might not see eye-to-eye all the time); that way they can go to the same "place" in life - be where they want to be because they got there together.