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36 year old man
Encinitas, California, United States

Seeking:
women 25-35
Within:
50 Miles of Encinitas, California, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I love to surf and I'm seeing more and more that surfing is a metaphor for life. You can't over power the ocean; you have to go with the flow and stay focused on the moment. True surfing is finding inner peace and harmony with all things. Surfing is a type of controlled surrender to the power of the ocean and I think an effective way to live is a controlled surrender to the power of life. I've read dozens of profiles on here and they all seem to say almost the exact same thing worded in different ways. They all go something like this, "I believe in being positive. Family is very important to me and I am very supportive towards my friends and family. I'm goofy/funny and have a sarcastic side. I am very loyal and expect the same from others. I am very active and love many sports and outdoor exercise activities. I am outgoing, ambitious an hardworking and I love my job. I love to travel and see new places and I like adventure. I am honest and I have integrity. I am careful about the people I surround myself with, but I am not judgmental. I am looking for someone who has all of these qualities and is a gentleman and has a sense of humor and can joke but also knows when to be serious. And I want someone to appreciate me for who I am." Ok I feel like someone is selling something here and I guess that's what we're all here to do, to convince others to take an interest. I'm not sure about this approach, I don't want to sell anything. I'm a living thing and I'm here with the rest of you just living life. I don't have any expectations, it would just be nice to meet someone to learn things from and have a good time I'll tell you something real, my life is challenging, Am I negative about it? Yeah sometimes I am. I respond negatively to disappointment. No I'm not all beaming smiles and positive wisdom when hard work and hopes are dashed to pieces. But I don't stay that way for too long and the older I get the better I'm getting at it. The positivity of essence as opposed to naive and foolish optimism is an achievement worthy of a lifetime and I have witnessed it in myself only in the fleeting moments of self awareness that happen at pivotal moments in my life. If i'm insensitive, and it has been known to happen, it's because I'm in my own head about something trivial in the grand scheme of things and I need a swift kick in the butt which life itself seems quite willing to provide more often and more effectively then other individuals. Once that happens I'm sweet as they come attentive and learning the lessons as they come and less likely to fall unconscious again the next time. Most men are perverted nymphomaniacs even if they try to hide it behind civility and charm, and I am a man but I've reached the realization that sex is better when you really know someone and care for them. At the core of intimacy is the never ending exploration of yourself and who you're partner is. Basically I'm not perfect and probably never will be. I'm a pit bull that wont quit though, and I respond to pain with thought not just blind anger and resistance so I've made some progress in my life. If you're looking for perfect your not going to get it here girl sorry, but I'll give my best that's all I can promise.

Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing cards, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing, Video games, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Martial arts, Running, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I love all animals but I am a bachelor living alone and I spend a lot of time traveling so I feel it is unfair to the animal to keep a pet.

Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
University of California, Riverside, Riverside, CA
For fun:

I love Surfing! I like bike riding and hiking. I like great food and eating out at quality restaurants. I like having a couple drinks with friends. I like reading. I'm a pretty big movie fan. i like telling stories.

Favorite hot spots:

I dont have any real favorite bars or nightclubs or anything like that. I just go with the flow Travel I like going almost anywhere. Of course i love Hawaii because of the surf. Just got back from Puerto Rico, I like that a lot. I like Seattle

Favorite things:

I dont really have a favorite type of music. its just how it hits me I like everything from techno electronic dance to rap and hip hop and rock to jazz and classical and maybe even a little country.

Last read:

Finished rereading Hemingway's "To Have or Have Not" and am in the middle of reading "Born to Run" by Christopher McDougall. Im a fan of John Fante and Charles Bukowski.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
4'11" (149cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Hazel
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark brown
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Dark blonde, Platinum
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally, Daily, Cigar aficionado, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation:
Self-Employed / Entrepreneur
No preference
Income:
$75,001 to $100,000
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
No
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Not sure
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference

This is something my French cousin has put best I think. "Enjoy the moment"

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I have a masters in pure mathematics from UCR. I was working on my doctorate when I was offered a job with the government in metrology science for determining calibration intervals for measurement equipment.

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