I like to play, and learn, if u can do both at the same time that's the best. Looking to meet someone who has standards, can enjoy their own company. Are happy with them selves dont depend on happiness from someone else, that is just the iceing, but you have to have the cake. likes the water? LOVE the water, water sports, water skiing, boating, playing with a certain someone in the water is the absolute best, there is something in the water(oolahla) anyway.... I like a man that knows what he wants and takes it. Takes care of himself, and knows their is more then just a shell, seeing beauty from within is the most important, but to have both is the total package. Their are alot of single men and women out there, but, not alot of really good ones, I feel I deserve the total package. I beleive Im the total package, remember, there always has to be a better looking one in the relationship, I know Iam usually not it, but not to hard on the eyes.Im looking for the kind of man that can take control, knows what he wants and gets it without hurting anyone in between. Enjoys time together, and apart. Early morning walks, in the rain, couples yoga, all very important. Texting is OK, but not the real thing, Im a person with a voice, nothing sexier than a voice, anyone can type. I am a loving person with a lot of love to give..not wanting marriage, friends, friends/bennies..go from there right.