I'm a fairly disciplined person. As a single father and student I have to be. Time and money are at a premium, so I can't allow myself to waste either of them doing things that aren't helping me move forward. However, that does not mean that I'm incapable of outbursts of silliness and/or just abject spontaneity.
I'd like to meet someone who has goals, or has managed to achieve some. They should be open-minded and understand that not everyone works off the same map of life and that some of us figure ourselves out at various stages.
I'm affectionate and loving and would like them to be the same. Good looks are nice, but I'll always give more credence toward someone with a dazzling personality.