I am fun desi woman (fun as in: sunny disposition, easily amused, and not arrogant!).
I have recently spent some time learning to cook Indian food and getting to know about my culture...there is a really good site called Prasheetha which has good lists of must sees and best music from India in last 10 years. Put it this way: we will start off on a good foot if you like atleast a couple movies or songs...Just being honest ;).
Someone who is easy to get along with, mature, involved in organizations which do something worthwhile for humanity. We will know obviously if we click and are attuned to each other in any number of ways.... tho you can spend hours on the phone with someone, meet them, only to find out there is not that kinship/attraction (better known as chemistry)! Making new friends is always nice 2 tho ;)