I'm a native to CA and pretty down to earth. I consider myself pretty easy going, but I have a LOT of energy! I enjoy being healthy, going new places and have a great life. I'm extremely lucky to do what I love for a living. I'm looking for someone happy and likeminded. A best friend / partner in crime. Someone who is grounded, self motivated, open minded, compassionate and a great friend to others. I'm most drawn to people with incredible presence, character and playfulness, the kind of person that, for some reason, you just can't ignore. Someone who can be themselves, highlight the positive and downplay the negatives life throws at us.
I can be goofy at times, and use humor quite liberally, but I also know when it's not appropriate (mostly!) and I don't always choose the path of least resistance!
I donate free time to organizations and causes that are very close to my heart. I am active in sports, work out regularly, and am a huge animal lover. If you don't like or can't deal with animals, or are very religious, we will NOT be a match.
I am positive, direct, loyal to a fault, honest, happy and I am extremely committed to the things I believe in. I am fortunate to have extraordinary friends and family in my life and I try to never take them for granted. I am not looking for someone to complete me, but for someone with whom I can enjoy the journey...or stay home and just enjoy each other. Someone HAPPY, and who would like to add to that!
I love a cozy night on the couch as well as an evening out in a dress, and am comfortable in most social settings. I'm playful and affectionate when I get to know someone so I prefer someone spontaneous and not afraid of PDA's. I value the same qualities in my relationships as I do in my friendships...honesty, humor, emotional maturity, and chivalry.
No pressure if we meet but, I'm NOT looking for a hookup. I'm up for fun, meeting laid back and interesting new people to go do things with and if there's a spark, let's see where that takes us! Long term companionship is ultimately my goal, but you can never tell how things go until you know one another.
I'm not into endless emails, so if you don't want to meet within a reasonable time, don't waste my time or yours. I am comfortable with myself and want to be with a guy who is playful, passionate and knows what he wants in both love and life and isn't afraid to act on it or share his heart! I love spontaneity and being able to express yourself physically and emotionally. Bonus points if you are an incredible kisser..A kiss can say what words cannot!
I work hard, and like to play hard at times. I love to travel and have friends/family in many countries, but there are many places I'd like to explore, so hopefully you have a passport! I enjoy cooking and eating healthy, golf, movies, concerts, getting together with close friends, a day trip to anywhere, a day at the beach, a glass of great wine, relaxing on the couch with a movie/book.
It's all about chemistry and compatibility, not age. That said, fitness is important to me. You don't have to be able to run a marathon, I'm looking for a partner, not a sports hero, (although if you're a sports hero, that's ok too!) but please be reasonably fit and honest about yourself!
Please be polite to others and able to have an intelligent conversation. Have passion for something, be it a hobby, career, a sport, a cause or me. Be able to laugh at almost anything until your sides hurt (including me or you) Playful banter is also hugely entertaining, at least I think so! So let's not take everything so seriously...deal? OK, good.
Also, I'm 37, but lowered my age for searches
If you have a few or more of the above qualities, then message me! If you're not sure, please re-read the above thoroughly! Physical attraction plays a role, so have CURRENT PIX or no response. I need to be able to recognize you if we meet! And please sign your name if you msg me! Mind reading isn't one of my