I am generally attracted to/looking for guys who are fit, very masculine, financially and emotionally stable, and who are looking for something similar but in someone who compliments them rather than is a carbon copy of them. Sometimes, I think gay men make the mistake of thinking that their ideal partner is someone who is just like them physically, emotionally, socially, and in recreation. I think good matches are built from common interests and chemistry, but the ones that last are the ones that fill in each others' blanks. I am looking for an awesome friend/companion for a no expectations kind of relationship to begin with. Relationships built out of strong friendships are always the best.
I hope to find a partner someday that can help me relax and enjoy life more, someone who plans to be spontaneous, can make me laugh (esp at myself), loves my friends, is serious, but doesn't take life too seriously, and most of all who is loyal and that I can trust. I am a very forgiving and understanding person on most things, but a breech of trust is a dead end in all of my relationships... friendships, professional, romantic. It's all the same. I value loyalty above every other thing. I give it and I expect it in return. (Superficially, I love guys that have nice biceps, everything else is a greedy bonus.)
I am hoping to find a friend (or friends) to pal up with and just have some fun. I don't always have much in common with people my age, I sometimes enjoy a slightly older crowd, and have the financial stability and maturity to run with that demographic or my age, or younger depending, but regardless, I just want a nice handsome guy who knows how to have fun and can show me a good time. Who knows where that might lead, but I am living in the moment for now.
ABOUT ME: What better way than Myers-Briggs. I am a definite INFJ. Look it up! :-)