My family is important to me, and I'd hope it would be to my guy as well. I think it's also important for a both the guy and the girl to have and spend time with their own friends as well as doing things as a couple. I've grown up and grown out of the "partying" stage of my life and I'm not into finding someone who spends every night out. Oh, and determination is a big thing for me, I worked my butt off working out daily (I DO need to get back to the gym though!) and changing what I ate and that determination helped me to succeed in losing 135 lbs. All this said, I'm open to anyone...I'm strong into thinking ANYTHING can happen and you may never even think or believe what your future may be like.