I have three children, All boys, that are my first priority and keep me very busy. I like being outside, especially the beach. I rather turn on the radio than the television. I like all sorts of Music. I encourage singing, even though I suck... I believe truth is cruel honesty. I would rather hurt you once with the truth than twice with a lie. I am very confident and independent. Not looking for that guy to pay my way but if you like to spoil then bring it on. I enjoy working out and could always use a Gym partner. I don't like drama...really...I would rather talk about anything else than the same he said she said crap that began in high school! O...I have a great appreciation for common sense! I do have a brain and am educated...please don't insult my intelligence. I try to learn from others mistakes and have been known to make a few of my own. I've had it all and I've been completely broke and if there's one thing I've learned it is I only want to be happy...don't get me wrong, I do like shinny things, but at the end of the day you can't have a conversation with a Coach bag! Or a person with the personality of one! I can be very blunt at times, and very quiet at times, that does not mean I'm angry or upset...I have no problem letting you know if you've offended me... I was raised to have confidence but not be full of myself, to have self respect and respect for others, to always use my manners, and to never start it..but always finish it! I wasn't raised to chase men, so you probably won't hear from me first. I love life and don't sweat the small stuff, Life is just to short! Not looking to get married! I am recently coming out of a long relationship and just looking to see if any good guys exist anymore just to hang out and you never know if we are compatible where it could go from there..I'm from the days when men treated women like real women not sexual toys . So if you can handle a sassy girl with lots of confidence and my crazy busy schedule with life,kids and work then message me. But if you are under 25 and looking for a one night stand move along.... I really don't have time to go through 100 messages. Time is money!!
I absolutely love meeting new people and making friends. I am usually the instigator of a good time. I love, love, LOVE to dance. When people get to know me past my extroverted nature, they see that I am extremely caring and compassionate.
My take on these categories:
-music and concerts: I believe that music is part of every person's soul. I want to find someone with a similar taste in music, or at least someone who's music I can respect and tolerate. Not much on country music :)
-family: This is very important to me!
-friends: It is important that you can get along with my friends because I love them, and want them to love you too! My take on it is Friends are the family we find along the way!
-politics: I really don't like politics. I don't appreciate that extremists on either side can't see that the opposing end of the political spectrum might have a valid point. I'm financially republican, socially liberal...can't we all just get along? But I am educated and well informed so I can speak intelligently!
Simply put,a perfect day: Wake up and listen to some music in bed while talking and cuddling 'My ideal guy likes to cuddle" :). Make breakfast to take directly back to bed.
I love: Christmas lights, champagne, dancing, being spontaneous, last minute plans are totally ok by me, ranking my favorite cheeses, back rubs, staying up late talking, holding hands, when someone around me breaks out into freestyle rapping (I'm so impressed) haha, board games, giving compliments, jamming out in my car, being punctual! Not so much for early rise more of an Night Owl ;)