I think it's about the right time to settle down...some would say past the time to settle down (teehee) but I think everyone should mature and work on themselves before getting married.....I want to find someone I enjoy spending time with doing absolutely nothing..or worse than nothing....folding clothes...lol....best friend material....If you or I don't feel like talking often after 3 or 4 dates, that's probably not a good sign....text messaging and courtesy calls don't count :)..a man who isn't afraid of building intimacy through self-revelation in a relationship that starts off as great friends...I would like to meet someone who is principled...who tries to live his values and exhibits good character....you don't have to make a bunch of money or be the best looking...just enough to carry your own load and not scare my friends and family...ha!...I kid!...I generally have the most in common with a white, Christian man who is close to his family...is educated because I find it is important for self-esteem....and generally traditional and conservative....and of course, he has to know how to have a good time and laugh...I feed off the energy of others so hope to meet someone I feel at home around.....I can joke with the best of them but only certain people bring out my playful side....lastly, he should treat everyone with respect.
As for me, I think I am a good person...am often complimented on my smarts and thoughtfulness..giving gives my life meaning....have been told I am sarcastic sometimes....am silly....love my family....have a best friend who has been a rock for me for the past 18 years....love college football...weekend trips...live music...ELVIS!...cooking...reading....long conversations...kissing...I'm also an INFJ...since I know you were wondering :)....INFJs are gentle, caring, complex and highly intuitive individuals. Artistic and creative, they live in a world of hidden meanings and possibilities. Only one percent of the population has an INFJ Personality Type, making it the most rare of all the types...INFJs have uncanny insight into people and situations. They get "feelings" about things and intuitively understand them...But the INFJ is as genuinely warm as they are complex. INFJs hold a special place in the heart of people who they are close to, who are able to see their special gifts and depth of caring. INFJs are concerned for people's feelings, and try to be gentle to avoid hurting anyone. They are very sensitive to conflict, and cannot tolerate it very well...INFJ is a natural nurturer; patient, devoted and protective. ..Look forward to meetin' ya!