I'm a 29 year old guy living on my own in a city that I love. Born and raised in Chicago. I can be a shy guy at first, but get over that quickly. I am a hard worker with a weird schedule. I focus a lot on my job but that does not take away from my friends and free time. Its all about balance. I do like an occasional drink and go out every now and then with friends, but I prefer restaurants, movies, walks, coffeeshops, anything over trying to hold a conversation in a bar or club. My friends are as important to me as family, I will do anything for them. I love music, love food, love being outside, love reading, not sure what else to write, ask away if you have any questions.
I want to meet people who have a passion for life, a passion for anything really. It does not matter what the passion is. I love finding out about what makes other people's hearts race, minds swirl, what makes them tick. I love debating with people on topics we feel equally strong about. I had a problem with someone where they thought we couldn't get along because we did not share the same passions. Well, to me opposites attract just as much as being similar attracts. I enjoy sharing my interests with others and want to learn about people's interests. I want to meet someone who is articulate and honest, someone who is sensitive to me and to others. I have always heard you can judge how someone generally treats people by the way they treat their waiter or waitress and in good ways and bad ways, I have found that saying to be eerily true...I pay attention to details. I can go on and list the qualities I want to find in a guy but in the end, its all about unconditional love, accepting with flaws and all. The older I get the more I realize I do not have a type, just be a decent human being with a smart brain and a big heart that you're not afraid to use.