So online dating huh, well I'm not going to sit here and say I've never done it, because I have. I dated a girl for a little over a year and met her on this site. I also dated a girl for a couple of months by seeing her profile on that one site before took over our social network. I thought she was cute, went on her page, emailed her and acted like we'd met before by asking her where she's been and that I hadn't seen her in SO long ect.... Don't get worried after she said " I'm sorry I don't think I know you, but I wish I did". I told her that I was just "breaking" the ice. I've also dated a girl that I met in line at the grocery store, by holding two cantelope up to my chest and asking her " do these make my butt look big?". Needless to say I'm not afraid to talk to anyone and I have a fun sarcastic side to me. If you are my family or friend you will not feel more deeply cared for. Here is a direct quote from one of my ex's, "Everyone seems to gravitate towards you and your ability to surprise me on a daily basis blows me away" (yes she and I are still friends). I'm a very romantic and giving person, I love to give little surprises every day, some simple and some not so simple. The reason I can surprise you daily...... I actually listen to you when you talk. If I don't tell you, you are beautiful or sexy or amazing on a daily basis, please get me to a hospital because there is something wrong with me, lol. I am asked all the time how I stay looking so young, it's no secret....... LAUGHTER!!!
Let's start with who I'm not looking for : If you don't like to laugh at yourself, others or me?? I'm not looking for you. If you have trust issues or like drama..... I'm not looking for that. If you "need" a man to be happy, I'm not gonna be the guy for you!! And finally if you want to spend more than a few informative minutes ( because that can't be helped) talking about your ex, you are not what I'm looking for.
What I'm looking for: Well pretty much the opposite of what I've listed up above......... In a nut shell, I would very much enjoy meeting a woman that can stand on her own two feet, doesn't "need" a man to complete her, rather she WANTS a man to share in her successes and failures as a partner not a dependent. And the most important thing I am looking for in a woman...... LAUGHTER!!! The rest will fall into place.
I will say that I prefer to be talked to than winked at, but if you are to shy to initiate the conversation I have no problem being the one to do that. LADIES............ START YOUR ENGINES (And yes pun was intended, if you get it, if not leave the pun part out )
A little side note, my job has me going between Lancaster and San Diego a lot. Originally I thought I was going to be in San Diego more than Lancaster, but now it's been decided that I will be in the Lancaster area more often. So I am a Lancaster resident at least for the next 6-9 month. But don't worry San Diego, I will see you OFTEN!!!!
One more side note, if you can't handle the fact that we might have to drive 3 hours to see each other then yeah, we probably aren't going to work out, I'm looking for an adult relationship that understands that a true connection is going to have it's obstacles and three hours?? Oh no we can't see each other every day. As of 1/1/14 my job will allow me to live wherever I want, if I decide to move to Germany I can. I've just got to get through this year being flexible. So if we have a true connection and you can't handle the fact that we aren't going to be attached at the hip because I'm setting myself up for success and unlimited freedom, then what are you going to do later when I really need you for something hard and/or important?? I apologize if this seems a little harsh, but I'm not looking for Ms. Right Now or Ms. Selfish, I'm looking for a lifetime partner that understands support, sacrifice and understanding from both sides.