So a little bit about me, I am:
considerate – if something is important to you it is important to me
loyal – I’ve got your back
adventurous – I am always willing to try something new (be it a new food/restaurant or a new activity or a different destination)
active – I am into running and hiking (at the beach or a mountain trail) and I work out
into sports – I will play any sport (tennis, skiing, golf) and love watching some too (football, baseball, hockey)
personable – I really feel that I can get along with anybody, start up a conversation and see where it goes
family oriented – I get a kick out of doing things with my kids and extended family
and honest – importantly I feel that I am honest with myself, being in touch with who I am and what I want out of life, because that brings vitality and stability to any relationship.
Finally, the attribute that really describes me, I love to be funny – I can dish it out but I can take it too. Nothing is better than having a relationship with someone who you can be silly with, share an inside joke with and to have someone who puts a smile on your face everyday. So if it takes cracking a corny one-liner to make your day, then I am always up for the challenge.
So what am I looking for?
I guess the simplest way to put it is like this, see above. If it is important to me it is important to you, you have my back, you want to head to the beach and take a long walk up the shore line, you think it would be fun to go hit a tennis ball around for awhile (even if you aren’t much of a tennis player), you have a quirky sense of humor…. etc. Additionally, you are comfortable in shorts/jeans and a t-shirt but also like dressing up for a special event or a nice evening out. After an active day you wouldn’t mind just sitting on the couch to watch a movie or grab a couple glasses of wine and sit by the fireplace and just talk. And, as wonderful as it is to have a number of shared interests, you have an independent side, where you go and do things that are unique to you.
If you are looking for a relationship where you feel cared for, appreciated, supported, listened to and connected, these are strengths I feel that I bring to that relationship. So, just maybe, you have found what you were looking for.