I like to have fun, and I am looking to meet some people to have fun with in searching for that 'special one'. I am intelligent and logical, but romantic and wild as well. I like to try new things - twice if possible (in case I was biased the first time), and I like to exercise and have a few drinks, but I am not overboard or dependent on either. I prefer to go with the flow and not be on a tight schedule. If I have a critical deadline, I will get it done exceeding expectations, but life is too short to deadline everything. I have two awesome children that I cherish and spend a lot of time with, and that is one thing I cannot compromise. I've been through a lot of ... "stuff" in my life, and I am really just happy to be here, so I intend to make life happen. I am a sensual person – I thrive on touch. So, if you don’t like to sit close or don’t like when someone is touching your hair, we won’t get very far. I am a passionate person, as well, in regards to people and my thoughts and feelings. I can be all over the place in conversation and in how I like to spend my free time. I may want to go out go-kart racing or dancing one night and just want to stay in, drink some wine and watch a movie the next night. Amidst all of the craziness, I am very attentive, and when I find the 'special one' I am very commited.
As for my marital status, I am extremely separated and the divorce petition is filed and should be final in weeks. I'm not proud of that ... just explaining my status. I am not big on drama. I tend to discuss how I feel, but not go on and on and drag someone else who is not directly involved through it all. Similarly, I am usually considered to be supportive, listen and lend a shoulder, but I am not looking for someone who is a meltdown every other day.
I am looking for an attractive, bright, fun-making person to share excitement and moments with. I seem to gravitate toward women that are exciting and independent. However, I am trying to find one that is also interested in my happiness and is willing to let me know when she is not feeling so independent as well. I like a woman who dresses nicely (and looks good doing it), and I seem to have a weakness for heels. Of course, there are times for jeans, a football jersey and tennis shoes too.
There is much more, but I need something to talk about in those first awkward contacts:-)
