About me, I have been married twice, widowed once, I have 3 boys that all own there own homes and two of the three live out of state. I like to travel, but have only left the country twice, I usually travel by driving. The best trips I have ever been on have no time lines and no preplanned destinations. I like the beach but love the mountians, I just spent 4 weeks in the Big Horn Mountains of Wyoming, came home for 2 days and headed to the coast of Oregon for 10 days. I was going to retire this year but got offerred a new job. (Same money, just something new). I like to eat out, but would prefer cooking (I am told I am a good cook) and cook for family and friends often. I try to have fun with who ever and where ever I am. I am looking for someone who is not serious about life all the time, someone who can take the good and bad and not loose sight that life is shot, so lets deal with the bad and get on with the good. I can be painfully honest so don't ask if you don't want to hear the truth or what I think, but you can ask me anything. I also realize in realationships sometimes your need to agree to disagree and lets move on. I would rather spend time with a woman that has an opinion, rather than one that just say uh huh.