Hi - My MATCH membership will expire twenty first of MAY, "2012". Send me winks to tell me u r interested. Look luck to you folks.. Please, if u r above 32, it is too late for me bcos given dating time, etc., it would be already 34, 35. And thinking about kids.. hmm... unless I m willing to make an exception..
I am a professional, moved back from Boston to LA. Like it here so far.
I actually look younger than my age. Most people guessed I am 30 to 33. .
Looking for someone who is gentle, mature, kind, honest, open-minded, treasure family and moral values, understand respect, understand the need for care and faithfulness, willing to be a one-man girl.
Someone who is emotionally stable. Have inner beauty. Not contaminated by too much alchohol, or by great desire for money, or confused that sex is not love.
There is a lot of confused people out there. Remember the song - "some want to be abused; some want to be used",,, the loss of "selfness",, the loss of "self-care". That is a terrible state. Your body, mind, and soul - in a healthy state - is your best personal wealth and happiness. To let it go - not treasuring it - but openingly let others took it away from you - that cannot be recovered. What if finally Mr. Right (your prince) comes along? He should accept however your terrible state of selflessness?? One ponders.
A believer in taking time to know someone. One needs to invest time and efforts to know someone. Chemistry clicks when things are right and feeling at ease and comfort. Not interested in others that hurt or betray someone. No point bringing someone with a wicked mind and heart under the same roof.
So, personal character will score more points than external beauty. There are actually a lot of pretty girls out there, but honestly, some good men will say those are hard to handle (recall emotional roller-coaster demanding type), unfit for family creation and family love, and do not click. One needs to click in mind and hearts. Clicking onto money or wealth is a disaster.
A marriage certificate is just a paper, it does not guarantee a couple will be happy together forever. A marriage has to be made in the mind and soul of the individuals. Accept each other as part of one. When one hurts, the other aches. That is the way things should be. Love will substain through time and space, if both seek truth and pureness.
"Perfect match" is hardly perfect. Someone who you feel joy about, at ease, love to meet, love to spend time, for a long long time and who will never hurt or betrayed or be wicked to you is probably the best one can get these days.
Sincerity is most important. How can you love someone when your behavior is insincere? There are some Asian girls who got distorted after "having too much fun", and "try anything or everything at least once". That include immoral behavior. That mentality gives them the excuse to misbehave and be forgiven instantly.
If girls are interested in someone, it is OK for her to make first move too or initiate some hints or follow up. No hints, no
initiations, and no follow up means = not interested, not sincere. Such girls will be "passed". If you don't even make the
1st step to know someone, even if your prince Mr. Right show up, you won't even know it and he will pass you by bcos
you let him go....or u shunt him out by your arrogance..
Let's all hope that everyone of us will be able to find longlasting happiness.
One last thing, I travel and work in over 30 countries - Sweden, Norway, Finland, UK, Spain, Hong Kong, Korea, Japan, Singapore, Taiwan, Canada, Switzerland, Hungary, Italy, France, etc. I am a nature lover and appreciate the "nice" things/environment in life. I treasure good people and good relationships and believe that through a few good people, I can reach out to even more good people out there. It is like a "club" - that we defend the need for family and good relationships and encourage the goodness in people.
Amen.
