Hello I'm Jilly; 4' 11 and 3/4 lol. blonde w/ blue eyes. I own my own business and worked hard all my life, I have slowed down and currently I work part time, seeing patients 3 days a week. I have a spiritual devotion to my work; I get a great sense of 'meaning and purpose' helping patients 'rise above unconscious obstacles' that block growth! Simultaneously, I am a 'big kid at heart' and love to be: goofy, adventurous, playful and have INNOSCENT 'CLEAN FUN'! I have a plaque, it reads, 'We don't stop playing bc we grow old, we grow old bc we stop playing'. So true!! I am happiest when I am: covered in mudd after a rigorous horseback ride, long run in the rain or strenuous hike in nature. I love to move and be on the go! I love: NATURE, trees, snow, change of the 4 seasons. ( I always have my eye open to relocating to Colorado or anywhere I could build a home NESTLED IN GREAT BIG OAK TREES with property for my two horses).
ON THE SURFACE, I am attracted to one who is: optimistic, energetic, playful, silly and good natured. I get along with people who have an: 'I can attitude' and believe 'there is nothing we can't do together'. I like people who cooperatively MOVE WITH ME. If there is an obstacle, within reason, I move it, go around it, underneath it. I am allergic to the words ' I can't '! ON A DEEPER LEVEL, I will commit to a man who is spiritual: pure motives, empathetic, loving, emotionally available, open and honest, communicates, sentimental, loyal and devoted. I am drawn to strength, which I define as UNWAVERING HUMILITY: patient, solid, consistent, grounded and sound judgement! I am attracted to men who are intelligent, yet simultaneously ANCHORED IN HUMILITY. I love intelligence and admire a man who has a: 'QUIET, LOVING, HUMBLE STRENGTH', who tries not to deviate off the right path and strive to do the next right thing!
My overall philosophy on relationships is straight forward... If you want a relationship to work, take responsibility to get to 'know your own ego', invest the time to 'know your partner's ego'; then, 'move through obstacles' that block or sabotage intimacy! Without question, it takes 'practice and patience to UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER DEEPLY'; BUT A STRONG BOND IS 'WELL WORTH' the TIME and EFFORT INVESTED IN EACH OTHER! Love isn't about moving from person to person trying to find perfection, thats ego. Love is about committing to God, making a decision to deeply: know, understand and love the other...
To simplify... I once saw a greeting card that I liked alot, it was a picture of a little boy and girl driving in a car, each laughing and having a good time together. Above the picture it said, 'its not the destination that matters, as much as the one who shares the ride'! That is why I am here, I am looking for "the one" that I can't live without, nomatter where the ride takes us... we will be together!
SIDE NOTE: My motive, to save us both time...
1. I am attracted to a man grounded in spiritual alignment w/ a pure heart and strong character. If you have things in your life that are toxic that you rationalize/normalize, I am not interested! PRIDE IS SELF JUSTIFICATION OF WRONG DOING. I am looking for the one who I will be devoted to who has respectfully taken the time to remove toxic: people, places and things out of his life.
2. I am definately NOT interested in (lust) or superficial comments about my physical apperance! I have never had time for perverted animalistic attractions or lustful silly, immature boys!!! Lust is a perversion of God's sacred gift of love. See Bible and Read (Song of Songs). At my core, I believe in this!