Right now I am just looking for people to casually date and hang out with. My son is the #1 priority in my life so he always comes first, but I would eventually like to settle down when I meet the right person. I'm not into the whole bar scene any more, especially in Santa Cruz. I got that out of my system a long time ago and would ideally like to meet someone who enjoys doing things other than that. I like people who have a good sense of humor, don't take themselves to seriously but are motivated and can enjoy sarcasm, as I am a bit sarcastic myself :)