I am a man that looks at people as they are, not as I want them to be. I'd rather a person tell me the honest truth, rather then watch out for my feelings. A woman that can always be honest, have respect for herself, family, friends and others, is someone I want to be with. I have not always had the best of luck with relationships, but that's because I always looked out for others, rather than just myself. If the woman is not supportive of my career or me, she has no place in my life. I have already cut people out of my life for disrespecting me or people I care about and have no problems with it. I look to the future and anything that comes my way. I'm a true romantic and believe that romance is needed in a relationship. I grew up respecting women and surround myself with people who respect each other. Humor and personality is huge, if you don't have either...keep stepping. You could look very good/beautiful, but unless you have more to offer, don't bother talking to me either. Life is too short to let each day slip away, I live each day as if it were my last. I have my own goals and want a woman who has hers as well. A woman with goals and drive, is VERY sexy to me. If you're an interdependent woman, know what you want and are supportive of people you care about...maybe you should send me an email so we can strike a conversation. Hopefully I can find someone on here or at least make a few new friends.