I am a masculine - straight acting, outgoing, energetic guy, down to earth. I believe in friendship and family, I think life is 2 short to waste it holding grudges. I believe in living life the best way possible, knowing when to take it seriously and also when to laugh and when to stop sweating the small stuff. Friendship, second chances,learning and growing, and trust are all important. I'm looking for simple love, the one where both people feel comfortable in their own skin and where both people not only enjoy the person they are with but also enjoy who they are when they are with that person. I think a relationship takes effort, but if it feels forced then it is not right. I would love to find someone who enjoys learning, trying new places, and also staying at home on any given evening watching a movie and cooking together! And yes, values are never over rated!
Sometimes meeting people can be a scary thing!!! Often there is not enough time to open up to someone, and as any normal human being, there is a little bit of fear that comes with letting yourself go and lowering your guards, because you are giving permission to either love or pain to come into your life; In life we must take risks knowing that in most cases we are in fact going to get hurt, but when it works, God knows you feel like flying!!!. That actually stuck to me, and it made me wonder; how much are we willing to risk for the chance to find this situation which will lead you to feel as if you are flying? I guess it depends how bad you want it? "To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive-to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as joy, fulfillment, and intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before"
Sometimes internet dating can lead to "speed" dating, I still believe in getting to know the person a little bit more...
With me what you see is what you get; I don't believe in letting the other person assume. I want someone with whom I share chemistry, values, who is serious for the things that need it but who is goof ball for the most part! Lol! I do not like games, and did I mention I dislike assuming..?
At the end of the day, life is simple!!!!