I'm a go with the flow kind of girl who tends to find the positive in any situation. I believe you get what you focus on in life! I feel very fulfilled, and am not seeking someone to make me "happy" (that comes from within), but rather someone who also is excited about where they're at in life and wants to share experiences together. I do think having a great relationship would make life even better! Yes, I am only separated, but that's because in MD it takes a long time to get a divorce. My last relationship has been over for a long time and the divorce will be final soon.
I've lived on both coasts, in a total of 4 major metropolitan areas (grew up in CA), and consider myself an east coast woman with California girl roots. I've got a very spontaneous side, but can be a planner too. I love the variety of experiences life has to offer...I like camping just as much as I savor a nice dinner. A couple of weeks ago the kids and I headed off to Shenandoah National Park on a spontaneous trip...to find snow...unexpected, but fun in a whole new way. I am passionate about learning new things - I recently took up tennis and got hooked. One of my goals is to travel the world with my kids, to experience different cultures and broaden my and their perspective. So far we've been to Mexico, Canada, France and Switzerland together (I've also visited many other countries on my own, too). I love to ski in the winter time.
I feel great joy in parenting my two kids - it's a pleasure, not an obligation, and it's important to me to find someone who feels the same way.
A healthy lifestyle is important ! I eat healthy and exercise regularly - and I think those things are essential to getting the most out of life! I'm not a fitness queen, though (honestly, I don't love the gym). I just believe a healthy body enables a healthy mind, and so on. At the same time, I don't take things (or myself) too seriously!
I'm spiritual, but not religious.
So what am I looking for? Inspiration. Not in a fairy tale way...but I'd love to think we could motivate and inspire each other to keep evolving into the best versions of ourselves. Chemistry is important, too. I'd love to find someone who shares a love for family and for exploring new ideas, places and things; who is open minded, who lives a healthy lifestyle and enjoys life's diverse experiences, whether it's kicking back at home, traveling or taking on something new together. Someone who really believes in living life on a daily basis and who has high standards for what they want out of life.