Weird things happen to me; nothing that you should be afraid of, but just realize that if we get together, you're in for a wild ride. I've driven a go-kart for six laps with the back of the car in flames. My car has broken down in front of a dozen honking customers in the drive-thru line at McDonald's. I was recently discharged from the army because a broke my colar bone and they say its not going to heal, I'll leave the story of how I broke it for another time lol. My ultimate goal is to achieve happiness for me and the people I surround myself with on a daily basis. Ive recently thought about moving away, but it won't be easy to leave my friends and family behind because they are my anchor and the paradigm of everything that I aspire to be. I'm fortunate to have them in my life. I'm pragmatic but spontaneous. Nurturing but competitive (very). Relaxed but energetic. I love staying up late -- whether it's to party, watch movies or just read a good book -- but I almost always sleep in on weekends. I never miss a red wings game. I definitely have an adventurous streak -- whether it's trying new activities such as rock climing, or trying out an exotic recipe in the kitchen, or traveling the world thanks to my good friends at Orbitz and Priceline. My dream trip is taking the Orient Express from Paris to Venice to Budapest, then relaxing on a Greek island with nothing but a beer, twilight books and vogue magazine. (last bit was a joke) Are you in? lol
What Im Looking For:
I'd rather be with a woman who has big dreams and no money than a woman with no dreams and big money. I must admit, I like a bit of a bad girl -- not an awful, I'm-going-to-treat-you-like-crap kind of girl, but someone who's going to push me to my limits and then pull back with a warm hug at the last minute. Truth is, I'm just a nice guy (most of the time) who's looking for some fun and companionship (not necessarily in that order). I love funny woman who can keep me captivated with a story or make me laugh until I cry. I also love creativity and passion. Maybe it's your love of '80s movies, your james patterson collection or the fact that you moved across country with only a duffel bag -- it doesn't matter. The right woman not only fascinates me but also brings out the best in me. We push each other to be the greatest people we can be. We bolster each other's egos and we leave short, thoughtful love messages for each other when we're away on business trips. If you're comfortable in your own skin, have a strong sense of self and aren't afraid to expose your flaws, I'm sure we'll get along just fine. But I will say that if you've got blue eyes, are a Red wings fan or like to travel, I'm already melting.
My Perception of an Ideal Relationship:
Complete and utter comfort. I can be myself around you without feeling judged. You can sit in your room reading while I do things for work and I'm entirely content. I only have eyes for you, you only have eyes for me and we communicate this verbally, physically and often. Down and dirty sex and warm and comforting cuddling are ever present. Fights are rare and when we do get into it, we don't stop talking until we've reached some sort of peace. Unparalleled companionship, unprecedented generosity and unconditional love grant us the foundation for a lasting long-term relationship.
What I've Learned from Past Relationships:
Flossing is important. Laughing is essential. Perfection is impossible. Better to be single than to be in a bad relationship. If it's worth it, I'll work for it; if it's not, I won't. Don't say anything you'll regret because you can't take it back. Finally, you must expose yourself emotionally -- it's the only way to reap love's greatest rewards.