Fun Lovin guy looking for adventures in the western U.S. Originally from Detroit rock city and now in Scottdale. Love to enjoy the wild side of life but also enjoy relaxing and enjoying the finer things in life too. Hopeless romantic that tends to go over the top to show my interest and or affection. A big fan of friends first, more to follow if the chemistry is there. A constant comedian, I have a knack for bringing out the lighter side of everything and everyone i meet. Life is too short to not be laughing at something. :) Looking for an attractive lady with similar interests, loves spontaneous adventures, has an inner drive to succeed, and lives life to the fullest.
The following is a great recipe for a relationship that I saw recently. If this is the kind of relationship you are interested in, send me an email. :) Cheers!
We are told that all people stay in love because of chemistry, or because they remain intrigued with each other, because of kindness, because of luck... But part of it has got to be forgiveness and gratefulness. The understanding that, so, you're no bargain, but you love and are loved anyway.
In love what occurs is two become one and yet still remain two. When truly in love words can be meaningless without action. For true love is felt not just heard. Is the saying; That you become one when you marry or fall in love really true? You will always be separate in many ways. Decisions should be made together as well as many other issues that arise; but you can't bring two separate lives, minds, and bodies into becoming one. You will never think alike, act alike and be alike. You have been raised in different worlds per say, learned from different parents, taught in different cultures or religions. You can't drop all that you have become as a person and become another.
The way you can make a relationship work is understanding that you are different. You think differently. You act differently. You might have different interests, hobbies and goals. But understand that's not a bad thing. The bottom line is; are you compatible with this person your with. Do you have things in common. Can you make each other laugh, feel good about the person they are. Can you not be possessive and try to control or change them into the person you would like them to be for your own selfish reasons. These are the questions that you need to ask yourself and your partner. All couples have disagreements and spats but it's how you end or solve these issues is the key. Can you walk away still in love. Or do you walk away wishing you never got involved with this person or thinking, I hate my life.
Remember! You will never meet that perfect person. So quit looking. That person doesn't exist. The best you can ever find is someone who can be most compatible to your likes and your needs. No one out there is perfect and neither are you. The answer is compatibility. Being able to still feel love in your heart and soul after a dispute. Not holding grudges over past events. Not using week spots that you know can hurt your partner in anger. Knowing this is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. The person I want to grow old with. The person I will take care of if illness strikes him or her. Know I won't hurt, harm, or purposely destroy what I've wanted my whole life. To live happily ever after.
This can be easily achieved by knowing how to love and how to care with unconditional love. Knowing in your heart there is nothing that can break this incredible bond you have worked so hard to build. You must understand and believe that you have absolute trust in your heart. Trust in the fact there is nothing that can take this away from the both of you. It takes two to make a relationship successful but only one to destroy it. Think before you act and know the consequences of your actions. Once your able to love and trust yourself you can love and trust your partner.