I've no wish too change anyone. Nor do I wish to be change. We all need to be happy with who we are. If we're not, then how will anyone ever be happy with us..I don't deal we'll with self pity due to the fact that we are for the most part at our points in life because of the choices we've made. Yesterday is gone.....tomorrow is.......? I'm looking for someone with a colorful soul, someone who stands out among all the shades of grays. Artistic, self assured, someone to play mental chess with. I want a partner, not a dependent. I'm basically a homebody but want to see more of what Atlanta has to offer with someone at my side. I love candle lit rooms and fire places. Romance is wonderful with someone who appreciates it. and ruined with those who accept it. My creative side can make many things more enjoyable to someone that's worth it, and who can be the same.