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32 year old woman
Sacramento, California, United States

Seeking:
men 31-36
Within:
100 Miles of Sacramento, California, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
I'll tell you later
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
Faith:
I'll tell you later
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

Me, I can never answer a true or false question, the world is made of too many shades of grey. I am. I'm empathetic (therapist in me!). I'm both head & heart and at times too much of each. If I were a cookie I'd be a fortune cookie, a tree a Christmas tree... I'm not sure I believe in past-lives but like to think if I can't finish all my heart longs for in this one there's still hope. I'm serious and responsible when the time calls for it, soft and empathetic when a friend needs it, and fun and adventurous when I need it. I'm motivated. I'm opinionated. I've lived and I've felt and I've seen. I'm looking for someone who has also lived life: Enough to be empathetic toward others and knows how to navigate in the world, yet remains unscathed. Someone that gets that life is about how you treat others, about honesty and being inherently "good," respecting yourself, finding a passion and laughing...A LOT :)

I'm a mixed bag, a paradox, a walking contradiction. So any description i give you of myself may lead you to believe i'm confused but i'm just the opposite. I'm pretty self-actualized. I'm not perfect, by far. But i'm a work in progress... I dont expect perfection from myself or others, just progress. and PASSION. i'm inspired by people with passion. i have many. Travel. Photography. Travel photography and people. In fact, all my hobbies involve people in some way and that's what makes me who i am and why i do what i do.

Hands down best date ever: Involved sushi. Tent Forts (you know, made from furniture, sheets and blankets like when you were FIVE). and good converstaion that lasted all night. Tent forts were key though ;) really anything beside the norm...surprise me. Roses? NO. Expensive dinner? NO. Be creative and make me laugh and i melt. I find wit and intelligence the HOTTEST combination because they can't be carried off without confidence. And no relationship can work (or work well) without it.

If you want to know more.... the nitty gritty....the juicy stuff...write me. and pleeeeeease don't bother if you write things on your profile like "i like people who like to have fun" and "i like to laugh." SERIOUSLY. who doesn't. tell me something real. Im a coffee ADDICT. I like warm socks. i hate gazpacho (cold soup? eek). i love broccolli. and i eat pickles before bed. i lost both my parents and i tell you that not so you can sympathize with my plight, but truly get how much i understand HEALTH and HAPPINESS are not "wait till later" priorities. i'm a morning person. and a night person. i like naps in the day with my love. my heart is at the beach. i was a serial transfer student in college (schools:4. degrees:3). I can't function without a GPS (if there are two options of where to turn i will ALWAYS choose wrong). I like warm rain. I love the smell of Ben Gay (it's ridiculous), tires and new shoes (separately. though maybe just because i've never been blessed enough to smell them all at the same time). I'm applying for Dual citizenship this year (Finnish/American), sort of feel like a poser since i only lived there 9 months and can't speak the language but i have the blood so apparently i'm IN. i recently really like the color purple (not the book. just the color. deep. i know). I LOVE leisure sports like frisbee (i carried one in my backpack all through high school, just incase!). i have two dogs (a shih tzu and a shiba Inu). I've always wanted sea horses. I'm crazy motivated. and if you're not, i'll give you my card but i won't date you ;)

Also won't date: Men that lead with their money, im a single mom but i dont need a "rescuer." i need a partner.


and PS. MUST be open to knowing the most wonderful lil man in the world...my son. When i do decide i want to introduce a new man into his life--- 1) You have to be warm/fun/kind/attentive and 2) a good role model. so, in sum. it's a tall order. but i'll have no less :)

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Travel/Sightseeing, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Cycling, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Dogs
Pet Essay:

A Shiba inu and a Shih tzu

Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Capricorn
College:
Pepperdine University, Malibu, CA
For fun:

Travel, phototgraphy, anything on the beach and in the sunshine. Coffee, socializing, trying anything new (i'll give it a go at least once), spending time with family (especially my lil man who's 2.5 years old---so must love wonderful little people).

Favorite hot spots:

Little Corn Island, Nicaragua. Bora Bora. Jerusalem. Szfat, Israel. Surfers Paradise, Queensland. Finland. Inverness, Scotland. London. Southern Ca. New Orleans.

Favorite things:

Bright copper kettles and warm woolen mittens... i kid.

This could take YEARS to communicate the entirety of my favs! YEARS.

Last read:

Exam booklets. I've just finished all my 3000 clinical hours and am studying for the licensure exams for Marriage & Family Therapy. Long road. Lots of studying. BUT, I'm almost there!!! I can TASTE IT :)~

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
6'0" (182cms) to 6'6" (198cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
No preference
Eyes:
Green
No preference
Hair:
Blonde
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Other profession
No preference

I'm a Marriage and Family Therapist. LOVE. MY. WORK.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
No preference
Have kids:
I'll tell you later
No answer
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

My dad was Finnish. Scandinavian (tall and blonde). My mom was Russian (short with black hair).

Faith:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I have a MA in Clinical Psychology. (also a BA in Journalism- News Editorial. I was a writer and photojournalist in college & a BA in Psychology)
"I vont to know vot you aw feewing." lol

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