I have lived and learned a lot in 46 years of life and still living and learning. I have moments where I am humble to my detriment and moments where I feel I'm wonderful and can do no wrong. Somewhere in the middle of that is where I get to be. Not to sound arrogant or conceited and I would like to think my friends would agree with this, but words on a computer screen won't do me justice. I think I need to be met and talked to in person to really appreciate who I am as a person. I'd like to think that's true of everyone.I want a man who is willing to work on himself and support me in working on myself (and I him) as part of a long-term relationship. I want someone sexy and affectionate. Most of all, I'd love to meet someone who would like to take the ultimate step and have a commitment ceremony (I have 2 friends who want to do the ceremony, 1 of them been wanting to do it for longer than I care to admit).