Why am I so favored? I will probably never understand how I deserve all the blessings I have, but, I'm glad I got 'em, and I am thankful for them! Lol! I am a woman who loves life. I love people- my friends and family, of course, but I also try my best to give love and encouragement to perfect strangers everyday. I believe that God blesses me because of that- my Mom always says when you give with an open heart and an open hand, you always get back just as much and even more than you give. Though life deals us all blows that seem unfair or hard to endure, I choose to smile everyday that I'm fortunate to be alive because things could ALWAYS be worse right?! I really love this quote by Albert Camus:
"In the depth of winter I finally learned that there was in me an invincible summer."
Anyway, I work very hard, and I put in a lot of long hours. A co-worker met a great guy on this site so I decided to try my luck. I like to laugh and have a good time. I enjoy a good conversationalist, and a man who is thoughtful about life, the future and his community- a man with good ole' fashioned common sense (which has become much less common these days). I've been told I'm somewhat of a whirlwind- always in motion and constantly thinking of something else to do, but truly I'm more of an introvert. It is my passion for helping people and my idealism that propels me to overextend myself at times and constantly expand my social networks. I can't really define what I'm "looking for" on this site so to speak- I mean, I don't secretly have a ring, dress and venue picked out just waiting for a groom(and believe me, I know women that do!), nor do I hear my biological clock ticking away. Now be clear, I do know what I want in a long-term mate-I'm just not in a hurry. If I happen to run into him, I won't be sitting on my thumbs, because that would be stupid, but right now I'm interested in companionship more than anything I guess. Someone to have good conversations with and hang out with. I don't believe every man I meet belongs in my head,my heart, or my bed- those places are VIP areas. Sometimes people come into our lives to teach us things or provide something we need at a certain point and then move on-- there are people that enter our lives for reasons, seasons, and lifetimes. Lifetime people may even be lifelong friends. Whatever the case, what is meant to be will be, because God controls that, and if I know Him, I'm sure It'll be fabulous!