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41 year old woman
Sacramento, California, United States

Seeking:
men 37-45
Within:
60 Miles of Sacramento, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Slender
Height:
5'6" (167cms)
Faith:
I'll tell you later
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I could describe myself in terms of the characteristics I'd like to think I possess, but ultimately it's those character defining moments that are the most telling. I feel like those moments need to be experienced, not described. So, if we meet, you can form your own opinion about what I'm like in the ways that truly matter to you.

Until then, here's where I stand on some of the other things that seem to matter when trying to find a good fit. NOTE: I apologize for the length, but felt I needed to add it in order to weed out some of the "fishing". Hopefully, it saves us both some time.

RELATIONSHIP STATUS: I checked the "divorced" box, because it's true. What that box doesn't tell you is that I was married for one year when I was 23. I think it's safe to say I'm over it. Since then, I've been in a series of long term relationships, as well as some time on my own, but I haven't found the one I imagine spending the rest of my life with yet.

RELATIONSHIP vs. HOOK-UP: Relationship...100%! I don't hook-up and I suck at dating casually. So if you're looking to hook-up, no judgment, just please don't waste my time.

HEALTH/FITNESS: I've been into fitness and working out for as long as I can remember. I also try to eat clean, healthy foods most of the time. However, I'm not neurotic about either. On occasion, I will eat french fries and drink beer and not feel the least bit bad out it. I've also been known to go through the drive thru at McDonald's in the morning if I'm in a hurry. Sometimes convenience trumps quality. It happens.

SENSE OF HUMOR: I'm pretty sarcastic, love witty banter and one of my favorite shows is The League. Nuff said. Wait, I should add that I actually do have a fairly good grasp on the art of social awareness. I will behave appropriately and temper the sarcasm when the situation warrants.

SOCIAL SETTINGS: I'm equally comfortable at a country club or a dive bar. Although, my preference is probably somewhere in between. I'm not a fan of chain restaurants. I have a strong appreciation for good/interesting food, great wine, dirty martinis and unique atmospheres. I enjoy making a night of it with friends and/or someone special. Same is true of burgers and beer at the mid-mountain chalet or backyard BBQs. I also love listening to live music at smaller venues.

GOING OUT vs. STAYING IN: I think balance is the key to most things in life. I enjoy staying in as much as going out, but if you do one or the other too much, you start to lose an appreciation for it.

CAMPING: I don't mind getting dirty playing outside or working hard. I just need a hot shower at the end of the day. Still, I'll go for a day or two if it's really important to you. I won't even complain. But make no mistake, this is not something I love to do.

AGE: I don't mean to offend anyone, but I'm just not comfortable dating much outside my own age. To each their own, and again, no judgment, but for me, it feels like there's a disconnect on too many levels if the gap is too great. That said, I know there are always exceptions, so if someone exceptional comes along that falls outside my parameters, I wouldn't rule it out.

KIDS: I love kids and always imagined I'd have a family of my own, but didn't want to force a relationship to make it happen. I'm not sure it'll be in the cards for me, but I'm not ready to close the door on the idea just yet. If it doesn't happen, I'll still be the most kick-a** aunt ever!

IN SEARCH OF:
I'm not looking for perfect, just perfect for me...which is actually kind of imperfect (like me). If I were telling my parents about this great guy I met, I'd hope to use words like kind, authentic, hard-working, considerate, trustworthy and loyal...all the things a "genuinely" good person with integrity should be. Add to that, humble yet confident, sensitive yet assertive, great at communicating, smart, quick witted, sarcastic and funny. Plus...tall, athletic and hot (at least to me). That guy exists, right?

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Playing sports, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Golf, Dancing, Inline skating, Martial arts, Skiing, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I don't currently have a dog, but I prefer big, oafy dogs. Smaller dogs are cool too, as long as they don't have a yippy, high pitched bark.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Sagittarius
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Working out, skiing, golf, walking/hiking, watching movies, jigsaw puzzles, scuba diving, hanging out with friends.

Favorite hot spots:

Tahoe, Napa Valley, Vail, San Francisco, Manhattan Beach, my couch

Last read:

Sadly....material for certification exams - SUPER boring!!

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'6" (167cms)
6'0" (182cms) to 6'5" (195cms)
Body type:
Slender
About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Hazel
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Cigar aficionado
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering
No preference
Income:
$75,001 to $100,000
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
Not sure
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference
Faith:
I'll tell you later
Agnostic, Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I majored in Computer Information Systems and minored in Business Administration

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