if you're not happy, i'm not happy. end of story.
i am a giver, meaning that the other person's feelings, likes/dislikes, wants/desires, needs are a priority. it is important to me that my partner is happy and that he is getting what he wants and needs from the relationship. i am very passionate and feel more like a latina (sans drama) trapped in a (very) white girl's body. :) i love public displays of affection and hope you don't mind when i am suddenly on your lap, kissing you and basically telling the world "he is mine!!" i believe in spoiling the person you love.
i am very happy in my life. i love where i am and am grateful to have each day. i don't regret any decisions i have made (except, perhaps, stealing and then fantastically wrecking my best friend's parent's car when we were 13!!) because i know that had i not made those precise choices, i wouldn't be who i am nor where i am today. i have 2 amazingly, wonderful children who are the light of my life. i love my job (it is flexible and fun and changes every day) and my friends and family. it would be a huge bonus to have someone to share my life with, but that is something i want, not something i need.
i would love to meet someone who is fun, intelligent, sexy, athletic and fit. someone who makes me laugh, someone who makes me think. i love to go out, love a good time, love to travel and love to try exotic new things and places, but i am also happy hanging out at home making dinner (not that i can cook...but i am a great sous chef and i can make a mean martini). i love running (have run in a number of marathons and half marathons and qualified and ran Boston in 2010) and work out every day. that is a big part of my life.
i have modeled since i was 13, but my parents always insisted i have a back up plan. i have an MBA in international business and have worked in latin american finance and telecom (satellites), living in latin america, NYC and now miami. i have worked in M and A on wall street and left to start life anew in marketing at ralph lauren's corporate headquarters. i now have my own businesses (social media and marketing and a non-profit that i founded and direct) and i am financially independent.
i love miami for the international scene. it is hip, fun and offers amazing things to do and see - at all hours of the day and night. that said, i wouldn't mind relocating...especially to a place that is slightly less hot and humid.
it would be fantastic to have someone who i can share a run with or with whom i can share my life. either way, it's gotta be fun!!
p.s. i really love a man in charge!!