I am very active/fit/athletic/FUN and live at the beach, but Iam also a cultured/artistic kind of guy. My friends find me fun, energenic, and honest. Southern California has been my home for 18 years, but I still keep some of my "Midwest Roots". I get up early in the AM to workout and beat traffic and sometimes stay up in the Westside area to enjoy some of the fun/food/wine/culture etc. My family is very close and that is important to me even though they live on the East Coast and I am looking for someone that thinks the same. Most weekends are spent at the Beach or doing things like a drive up the coast to Santa Barbara/or to my golf get away in Rancho Mirage/Palm Springs.Living at the beach lets me partipate in many of the standard beach activities like running on the sand,long sunset walks,volleyball,swimming,biking on the strand etc.which I love!!!Iam basically looking for a classy/fun/athletic lady that can go from the beach/golf course to the opera/dinner/event.She would be very close to her family and would want the same quality with the man in her life. A sense of adventure and being able to "go with the flow" is also important. Life is an adventure and it is up to us to explore it kind of attitude is GREAT for me!! I do enjoy good conversation that comes with someone who is well traveled/worldly. I find this adds to the relationship and gives it spice!!!She would also enjoy fine wine/food & sunsets!!