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Handle:
HeresTheDeal4U
Essay:
Well if you've gotten to this point I guess I've passed the initial criteria, info pics. Certainly they have their value but from my perspective there's a lot more to be considered I'm a bit of a paradox - grounded, stable, family man - have my own law practice some 20 plus years now - but at the same time a definite risk taker, spontaneous and one who truly believes and lives that "outta the box" life - I'm looking for something and someone genuine real - no games whatsoever - baggage doesn't bother me a bit, since if you've lived a busy life a bit of baggage is expected - I'm definitely into music, especially blues/RB - ready to jump downtown to the Village to hear it live anytime on a moments notice - I love animals and kids - and try to live by John and Paul's last line to the Abbey Road album (end of Carry That Weight - C'mon, you know it right? ) - I work and play in Manhattan, live in lower Westchester near my kids - as it says above I am still officially "separated" (over 3 yrs now; - its an amicable situation that has worked fabulously for the kids) - but be rest assured that I am absolutely single and totally available, I mean I have nothing to hide and have my pic's up here don't I ?? (and they are recent) Please have a good sense of humor, I love good old fashioned banter, I dish it out pretty well, and can take it as well, so you need to be up for the reparte :) - ok, one more thing - if your thinking hmmmm, maybe - be bold and say hi cause I'm betting you'll be glad you did BTW VERY IMPORTANT : you should know that its not gonna be easy taking me home on the first date and having your way with me . . . . geez lol P.S.: If you see me having checked our your profile but did not said hello, it may just be that your preferences don't include me (i.e relationship/age status mostly) and I rarely contact someone in those situations - however if my profile leads you to the conclusion that you can expand those preferences a bit - then like I said - be bold !! :) Whichever however, good luck - R
Gender:
Male
City:
Hastings-on-Hudson
State:
New York