I’m trustworthy, loyal, kind, I say please, thank you, and most importantly sorry. I can be convinced with a good argument and will own it when I’m wrong. I’m open to just about anything. I love sports, although I don’t actively play any at the moment. I will happily cheer you on. NY Giants, Mets, and Caps. I grew up overseas and traveled the world and think I ended up a mixed bag of beliefs and views as a result. (that's a good thing). I am rational and logical, and try to avoid drama. I’m a good listener and try to accept people for who they are rather than trying to change anyone—that always goes so wrong. People are either compatible as they naturally are or they’re not—no biggey.
I believe in karma and value perspective. It isn’t necessarily what you believe that I will find interesting it is what you experienced that lead you to that belief that will fascinate me. I believe in always doing the right thing even when it isn’t easy or advantageous. I like character in people and respect those that are of good heart. I notice the small things, the everyday things, the challenges that people try to overcome within themselves. Read “If” by Rudyard Kipling. I try to be like that every day, to face victory and defeat with the same face, to not be too much or too little. I am strong and protective but like to trust someone enough to be weak and protected sometimes. It is the strength of balance. On a lighter note I am a goofball and I have been known to swear like a sailor (when appropriate, thanks to NY roots), nearly got arrested climbing the bull on Wall Street just to get a good picture (and yes I did get the picture), and I’m ok with making a fool of myself when trying something new.
I can be career focused at times, not for the pure sake of ambition, but a mind in motion tends to stay in motion kind of thing. I do need to focus more on experiencing life though, need to break free of the routine a little. I like to spend time with family and friends. I’d like someone that I can have fun with and just enjoy being with. I'm not looking for Camelot, Prince Charming, or someone to read me poetry so no pressure. Just a guys guy, no pretension. I’m intelligent, independent, and grounded but I’d like someone to teach me to not “throw like a girl” if that makes any sense. Bucket list-throw the perfect spiral. Just have fun goofing off basically but the point is I may be independent but still feel everyone has things to learn. I’m a little bit of a techy (in disguise), extremely capable, but I cherish my feminine side and will always laugh at myself before you do. I've had the best blonde moments around. I’m not really the bar scene type; I prefer more intimate settings like a good hike. I’m just me and looking for someone I can just get into a groove with. I don’t have a list of things a match should be because I find there is chemistry in places you least expect.