Women are like apples on trees the best ones are at the top. However some men are too lazy to reach for the top and rather settle for the rotten ones at the bottom because they are plentiful and easy to get. I'm waiting for the one that is willing to go all the way for me, and when he does, he will have a loyal, fun, sexy, erotic, down to earth woman forever who will honor and respect him for the man he has shown me he is! Men are like apples too, and I will go all the way for the one on top. Life is short... no more rotten ones for me :-)
I'm soo feeling my grown woman space right now! I would not go back to my 20's even if I could! Everything and I do mean EVERYTHING got better for me when I turned 40!!! Having the wisdom of my years with a vibrant, youthful, and positive outlook and a I dont care what you think of me attitude is awesome!
I am as real as they come. Honest, supportive, humble, but do know my worth. I enjoy stimulating conversations with a deep thinker. I'm not easily charmed, and don't fall in love easily. But If I do, and you are open and ready for what I have to offer and you treat me special like I'm the only girl for you, You will never be the same!!!
I want to enjoy the summer with someone I enjoy spending quality time with and enjoys spending time with me. Maybe take a few trips. Probably too late for Taste of Chicago or Essence festival :-(. But maybe next summer!!! In the meantime...we can keep it simple and just do some fun local stuff. It's really not that difficult to put a smile on my face if you are special to me :-)!
Honest and Real. You don't have to be making 6 figures. But be able to take care of yourself. Age is not important to me, But please know who you are and what you want. Physical attributes, tall, at least 6'3, reasonably athletic, with a beautiful smile and well groomed. I don't really expect much from this site but i thought I may find some stimulating conversation and some male perspective from someone articulate and intelligent. But, If God decides to grant me a miracle(and I do believe in miracles), He would send me someone that is down to earth, intelligent, attentive, loyal, honest, tall, handsome, someone I can't get enough of! And I would be his Ideal woman!!! And, he will not have braids. What the what? lol! I never liked braids on guys when it was in style, so def. not now that it's played out. A well groomed hair cut or shaved bald is what's up...I'm just saying..lol!
Ultimately a Hommie, Lover, Friend sums it up really! I also think laughing is important and want my guy to be my best friend and someone I can laugh with and be silly but at the same time keep the romance intact! Chemistry is a must... without it people just don't click! There is nothing more attractive to me than a smart funny man in a tux or a well tailored suit...YUMMY!
On another note... guys, y'all know you need to stop posting old pictures. It is really hilarious, most of them I can spot!!! It is really not cool and may be an indication that you do not like the way you look today. Who you are today just may be fine to me or others. However, by putting up pictures when you were much younger, thinner, with hair... gives folks an expectation, and when they see you in person, they are disappointed! Just trying to give a little friendly advice. I told you I am as real as they come...but with much love!!!