I have been working very hard in the past 5 years. I didn't realize that I am passing 30 till I find my friends are getting married. I was too focused on my work and I am successful. I was getting my PhD while working full time in a high tech company in Silicon Valley. Then I was doing rotations every 6 months in different groups in the company, including sent to oversea by the company to do several urgent critical assignments. Just got back and settle down to the head quarter in a nice position now in Santa Clara. I need to work on my life work balance. I would like to find someone who can share happiness with me and walk the rest of the journey with me. Life is short, be true and be happy.